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...give a PowerPoint presentation during sex to explain what they like?
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...show up to a first date in cosplay – and find it hot if the other person does too?
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...do something in a public space that’s technically not allowed – just for the thrill?
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...draft a BDSM contract and make sure it’s legally sound?
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...have a serious crush on a completely fictional character – and mean it?
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...use such nerdy terms during dirty talk that the other person starts laughing?
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...use a Dungeons & Dragons session as an excuse to roleplay sexy scenes with someone?
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...volunteer to be tied up “just to see what it feels like” – and pretend it’s purely academic curiosity?
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...have a secret notebook full of spicy fanfiction they’ve written themselves?
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...give a sex toy a name and treat it like a pet?
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...fall into a Wikipedia kink/fetish rabbit hole and only come out 3 hours later, full of new knowledge?
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...flirt using so many video game references that no one knows if they’re serious anymore?
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...start seducing someone in an escape room – just to see if they can get away with it?
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...get a tattoo with a nerdy/secret meaning that’s also kind of dirty – but only they get it?
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...call themselves a “Switch” – both in bed and in the Xbox vs. PlayStation debate?
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...read body language so well they know exactly what you want – and still make you wait for it?
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...get lost at a LARP event, end up with strangers, and stay – because it got sexy?
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...make a full sex schedule in spreadsheet format and actually send it to someone?
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...start talking headcanons about the scene’s setting – right in the middle of the action?
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...sext while staying in character from a Harry Potter house ship... and stay committed to the role?
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…pretend to be asleep to avoid sex — even if they’re kinda into it?
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…initiate sex just to win an argument or end a fight?
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…imagine someone else while having sex with their partner — and not feel guilty about it?
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…try something spicy just because their partner hinted at it — even if it’s outside their comfort zone?
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…use sex as a distraction to avoid having a real conversation?
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…secretly rate their partner’s performance (and keep mental scores)?
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…get turned on more by power than actual physical touch?
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…say “I’m open to anything” and then silently veto half the suggestions?
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…watch or read spicy content alone and deliberately not tell their partner?
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…bring a kink into the bedroom but never explain where they discovered it?
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…use sex to test whether their partner still loves them?
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…fake surprise at a request, even though they’ve secretly wanted it forever?
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…ask for emotional reassurance after sex every single time?
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…get annoyed if their partner wants something too “vanilla”?
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…offer a threesome suggestion and instantly regret it when their partner seems too into it?
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…fantasize about what sex with their partner would be like if they were someone completely different?
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…use sexual openness to hide intimacy fears?
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…let their partner think something is a “shared fantasy” when it’s actually 100% theirs?
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…want their partner to read their mind during sex — but never actually say what they like?